The pleasure of intimacy enhances exciting erotic massage, it turns intimate life into a vivid journey, relaxes the body, excites the blood.
Erotic massage, techniques, rules
This manipulation is carried out carefully, gently, because its main purpose is relaxing muscles and increasing sexual desire. The main techniques are the same as in the classic massage:
- Stroking – longitudinal, transverse, zigzag, circles, spirals.
- Stretching – sawing, crossing, stroking, rake-like rubbing.
- Kneading – pressing, sliding, rolling, pinching.
- Vibrations – patting, rubbing, puncturing.
In contrast to the classic, erotic techniques are performed with less intensity, smoothly, slowly, gently. From them, the female sexual energy should unfold. It is better to start with the creation of a romantic environment:
- Dim lighting, dim light, or better yet, light candles or an aroma lamp with aphrodisiacs.
- Quiet, gentle instrumental music.
- Be sure to have fresh, beautiful bedding, a soft small pillow or bolster.
In order to give your beloved maximum pleasure, you must follow the rules:
- Before the massage, take a bath or shower, preferably together. Perhaps a woman will already have excitement in her soul from her partner’s closeness.
- It is necessary to remove distractions – forget about problems, turn off the phone, possibly the intercom.
- Hands should always be warm and soft.
- It is better to massage the genitals with lubricant, and the body with scented oil.
- When erotic caressing, not only the hands are used, but also other parts of the body: the stomach, feet, breasts.
- Do not get stuck for a long time in one place and use monotonous techniques.
- The strength, amplitude, smoothness, speed should be alternated.
- Enjoyment during massage should be mutual. Unpleasant feelings are not allowed.
Erogen zones
Erogen zones are particular places on the body that, when touched, cause sensual arousal and arouse sexual desire. All erogenous zones are different. What pleases one person, the other may not like. Erogenous zones are found by experience or partner herself points to them. Usually (but not necessarily) the sensual places of the female body are:
- Breasts and the area around the nipples.
- Neck – the area under the hair, behind the ears.
- The feet, the toes.
- The inner surface of the thighs.
- The lower abdomen, the bikini area.
- Genitals.
Massaging the back moves to the sides along the waistline, then to the abdomen and up to the chest. It is necessary to move smoothly to the chest. Strokes, circular movements, grabbing the lips will arouse a storm of emotions in the girl. The final stage is the stimulation of the intimate areas.
Auxiliary means
During the intimate caresses you can use additional elements, they will increase sensuality:
- oil with an aphrodisiac;
- feather;
- a furry cloth;
- ball;
- rings;
- beads;
- piece of ice.
Erotic pressure point massage, how to do it
Acupressure is scientifically called acupressure. With the help of acupressure you can not only achieve arousal, but also improve your overall health. Acupressure gives you maximum relaxation and prepares you for intimacy.
Thanks to it, mental and emotional health is normalized, and stresses are relieved. All organs are strengthened and sexual energy is transformed.
Acupressure of Head Points
It is better to start with the head. Kneading the head and neck leads to the stabilization of the lymph system, which in turn strengthens the immune system. The active points are located at the top of the head, above the ears. It takes at least 5 minutes to activate them:
- Slowly, hard enough, but so as not to cause pain, press the pads of the fingers on the head clockwise, then counterclockwise;
- gently descend to the neck, no pressure on the lymph nodes, only stroking.
The result will be improved blood circulation, the strain of the day’s work will go away, and headache (if any) will be relieved or completely gone.
Acupuncture of the auricles
Many women enjoy having their ears kissed, tickled or nibbled. There are areas on the ears whose kneading will excite even an asexual. Here are the places where these areas are concentrated:
- The curl of the ear, the outer edge.
- Earlobe, its gentle stimulation can lead some girls to orgasm.
- The inner ear cavity. But not everyone likes having their tongue in there without warning. It is better to use the fingers, knead in a circle, first in one direction, then the other. Knead through the auricles as long as possible.
Acupuncture of the feet, hips
These areas are located in the following areas:
- The foot near the toes, the toes themselves;
- The inner surface of the foot and at the base of the toe;
- 12 cm above the knee, on the inner side of the thigh.
Slow, spiral movements knead the foot, moving to the toes. The thighs are affected with the palms of the hands, the entire surface.
It is enough from 5 to 10 minutes. During stimulation of the ear, there is a rush of blood to the genitals and their sensitivity increases. It is possible to use oils with aphrodisiacs.
Abdominal acupuncture
The abdomen area is sensitive and needs to be kneaded very carefully. The active points are situated under the navel, about 2.5-3 cm below. They lead to a quick, strong arousal. Points are kneaded in a circle.
The movements are slow, in one direction, then in the other. Repetitions of up to 4 times a day for 8 minutes, will give an increase in libido. Many women will prefer the technique of massaging the abdomen with the lips.
Intimate massage and the G-spot
Erotic massage of the genitals is done last, this completes the session. Most women’s genitals are an erogenous zone. But it is worth to mark out the main zone and its point. This is the G-spot. It starts at the very end, when the partner is excited.
To find it quite simply – a part of the front wall of the vagina is rough to the touch, bumpy – this is the G zone, and it is located at 3 – 7 cm deep from the entrance to the vagina. The G itself is the most sensitive area of this area.
G needs to be kneaded intensely, with effort, but within comfort limits. The G is not located on the surface of the mucosa, but rather underneath it and cannot be reached with gentle touches. There are no time recommendations, as the manipulation usually ends in an orgasm.
Conclusion
Erotic massage should not bring discomfort. Before you put the idea into practice, you need to figure out how the partner will feel about it.
If the relationship began recently, it is necessary to understand whether the degree of intimacy in the couple is sufficient, whether it will not embarrass the partner.
Otherwise she won’t be able to relax, and you can’t force a person to relax. For stable couples who have lived together for a long time, erotic massage can give a new wave of sensations.